Is thisssssss love??

My ex bf... He was totally in love with me... I made his heart race and gave him the butterflies and the weirdness... But before we started dating, I was crying over my first love... It hurt so deep that I thought I was going to die... My recent ex held me through 3 hours of that... Well... My recent ex never gave me the butterflies, but after awhile, he gave me a warm, homely, happy feeling that was subtle. But he was never into any of the things I was, unlike my ex, who was an artist and musician just like me... My first ex I knew I wanted to marry, but my second ex, I was considering it... Did I love my second ex? Or do I need to move on from them both?